There currently are ‘movements’ (think hard on that one) that seek to ‘dewimpify’ the Christian guy. But in their efforts to uplift the macho, burly, blue-collar Jesus, they slap the normal, artistic, gentle, maybe homeosexual guy around like. Curiously, those who preach the MMA or Macho Christ, are usually themselves macho types. Is that exeJesus or isoJesus? I think it is iamJesus.
I have nothing against men being men, and women being women. I’m for it, personally. But defintions of ‘biblical’ masculinity that involves the following don’t jive with me:
1) putting down others
2) promoting violence
3) trash talking (by this I mean talk that doesn’t help)
4) thinking your way is the way (mywayhighway)
5) dominating others
6) objectifying women
7) overstepping one’s bounds
8) never admitting one’s mistakes
9) rudeness
10) being inconsiderate
11) being unappreciative
12) not giving credit where credit is due
13) taking other’s things – seizing
14) empty promises
15) unfaithfulness
16) not being under authority (loose canons)
That’s not the entire list, but it’s a start.